I realized that I never really published an introductory post when I started writing here on Substack, so I thought I would do that now.
I’m an introverted, empath/HSP (highly sensitive person) who is an artist, photographer, and musician. Sci-fi and fantasy are my favorite genres, and I’m working on a science fantasy novel.
When I started writing 5 years ago, I wanted to encourage people with my words and inspire them with my photography and art.
I also weave my experiences and struggles with my mental health and spirituality into my writing. I believe we are healed as a whole person: body, mind, and spirit.
My tagline is “Where Art, Spirit, and Wellness meet.”
It took me time to come up with a way to explain what I do in my writing, and I think this sums it up nicely.
A lot has changed in the past 5 years. I often wonder if there’s still a place for people like me in the online writing game.
Many people prefer to read more political or controversial blogs. They doomscroll and read about all the problems, injustices, and negativity in the world. I used to do the same thing, and it took a huge toll on my mental health.
There is plenty of negative news to focus on in this world, and it’s an easy way for a writer to gain an audience. “If it bleeds, it leads”—right?
But that’s not my writing path. I have to be true to myself. I’m an idealist who would rather focus on the positive and encourage people.
But sometimes I feel like I’m shouting into a storm because the world is so negative.
I come from a long family line of negative people. Everyone in my family, on both sides, was very negative, including myself. A large part of my healing was learning how to overcome that past.
It’s not easy, but it is possible. If I can change, anyone can.
I finally decided I was tired of being unhappy all the time, and I realized that the only person I could change was myself. I can’t change other people, and I can’t change this world, but I can change how I respond and react.
On a good day, maybe I can give someone else a little encouragement and hope. If so, that makes writing worthwhile.
What’s next?
In 2024, I’m focusing on becoming my best, real self.
I want to write about how to thrive as a creative empath/HSP (highly sensitive person). I’m looking forward to where this will take me because I always write about what I need in my own life.
If I can help others with that information too, then my writing will be worthwhile!
Join my chat about forgiveness!
I'm currently working on moving on from some negative people and places in my life.
Forgiveness is one thing, but forgetting is harder. I have an insatiable need to know “why.” Why did they hurt, betray, leave me? Was it something I did?
What’s an empath to do?
Do you have trouble with this? Come join my chat about forgiveness. I’d love to know how/if you forgive and move forward with your life.
I’d love the feedback for my next article.
Oh my gosh this is practically the post I have scheduled for next week. 😂 Encouragement and positivity writers unite!
Yes, I do think there is still space for positive and uplifting content online! It really comes down to connecting with like-minded people. Many of us don't want to buy into negativity all the time. It is exhausting and draining.
When you focus on positivity, I have found more positive people and opportunities come into your life. Especially as an empath, it is important to care for yourself first and foremost. When you read negative things or fearmongering all the time, it just puts you in a bad head space.
If you focus on being authentically you, I think that is always the right way to go. Wishing you all the best in 2024 and beyond!